It's odd to look at a photograph of a friend or a guy and not feel anything. Not feel whatever you had felt before for them-or stranger still-to feel nothing. And you look back and wonder how you ever felt, that bubbly friendship full of laughs and strong bonds or that devoted head-over-heels magic. It's the passage of time and the adding of new people to your mix. And for myself, time heals, but it also erases.